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Guy friend turned creepy. I told him it’s making me uncomfortable but he said it’s my fault.

July 30, 2021

I told him I’m not attracted to him in that way. He’s overweight, 7 years older than me and has a very dirty apartment. We became friends because he was helping me out with music recording for my band.

He was incredibly nice and understanding. He knew about my celibacy and that I’m not dating anyone, and he was very polite and respectful. Until he wasn’t. He would make creepy comments like “I wouldn’t mind a girl like you giving me a lap dance” “you have nice feet”. As well as a bunch of creepy staring, and talking about how id “like to be slapped”. I saw him with his friends while bar hopping and he grabbed me in a non friend kind of way.

After explaining this he thinks I “led him on because people usually don’t respond when someone says something that makes you uncomfortable.”

And this is why women feel uncomfortable opening up. What a scrote. Was I in the wrong here? I could have said something sooner but I’ve had enough situations like this. Thanks.

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Title Guy friend turned creepy. I told him it’s making me uncomfortable but he said it’s my fault.
Author kittycakes22
Upvotes 116
Comments 7
Date July 30, 2021 8:21 PM UTC (11 months ago)
Subreddit /r/askFDS
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