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How can i stop caring about their attitudes?

April 8, 2021
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How can I stop caring so much what my pickme mum and sister think?

My mum who is 50 now has always had horrible relationships because she just goes for anything and has always said "Don't be so hard on men" or "You're too demanding". I bought up how if men weren't predators then why is there a teen porn category and she said "Men aren't like that in real life" like what???.

She said today that she might just look for a man who has money, a car and fake a relationship with him and my sister even said it would be a good idea for her to. I said "Why would you put yourself in that position?" and my pickme sister started yelling at me saying things along the lines of -

"You don't understand men" "That sub reddit you're on isn't real life" "Men aren't really like that"

Then she proceed to tell my mum -

"Men don't care about your body mum" (because my mum is insecure) "Men in their 40s-50s don't want younger girls, they want to settle down now after they have had their kids and been in relationships for half their life"

I'm thinking um what???

My sister is a typical pickme who talks to random men online (i think she loves the attention from them) but the thing is she was friends with a narc guy for months and just laughed about it.

A guy messaged her on Instagram and said "If my girlfriend messages you please don't tell her I've been talking to you" and she was 100% on his side and called the girl crazy.

To her men aren't liars or creeps, she's been talking to 3 guys, one where she leaves her child with alone (he tried to meet a amateur porn maker 2 years ago, he literally drove 8 hours and then found out she and her bf were playing him for money), Another guy she is talking about knows a close friend of our mums and he said he's weird and has issues and so my sister asked him about himself and he denied it all yet my sister still says he's so boring and plain yet is going on a date with him. I'm like um why do you even trust men like that?, She doesn't believe men would lie ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„. And the third one just messages her saying how beautiful she is and she thinks that he loves her. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„, um no sis he doesn't.

My other sister is like this too, she has been in an abusive relationship with her boyfriend for years and still thinks he can change, she says he is "80% better% ๐Ÿคก๐Ÿคก๐Ÿคก๐Ÿคก.

How can I stop worrying about their opinions and attitudes?, it's really affecting me when I hear it because it's unbelievable how ridiculous it all sounds.

Ty!

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Title How can i stop caring about their attitudes?
Author 19Bubbles98
Upvotes 41
Comments 1
Date April 8, 2021 3:57 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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[โ€“]BabyGothQFDS Specialist 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Their opinions donโ€™t matter. Not to you or your life. You know now, without a doubt, that they donโ€™t and wonโ€™t believe what youโ€™re saying. Accept that idea.

They are grown women who can make their own choices, let them fall and pick themselves back up. It sounds like they engage in a lot of the same behavior as the men youโ€™re trying to tell them about. If they donโ€™t want to change their own behavior they wonโ€™t be able to understand that in others either.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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