This applies to men you are not in a relationship with at the moment. Should we hide our feelings, especially if the guy hasn't taken any initiative in pursuing us yet? FDS is against women pursuing men and I don't know if being the first one to signal attraction is a bad thing. Should we just be "natural and friendly" and pretend we are not particularly attracted to them if they haven't signaled attraction first? In the past, I sometimes deliberately avoided guys I was attracted to as the guy wasn't pursuing me and I didn't want other people to notice how I was attracted to the guy.