I was groomed, manipulated/coerced, then assaulted by my old director (27M) a while ago when i was 18. He was completely unattractive and known for being such a creep, yet I did so many things with him that I didn't want to do. Since then, I've joined FDS, gotten into therapy, read multiple self help books, and actively trying to reaffirm my worth. Despite doing those things, I still can't shake the guilt and shame as he took all my first sexual experiences. I disregarded my intuition and dismissed the red flags and it cost me everything. I never thought that something like this would happen to me because I grew up in a super religious family/community that molded me into abstaining from sex until marriage and being an assertive women.
I wake up crying nearly everyday for not sticking to my morals and the lack of self worth I had to do those things. I've been depressed to the point that I'm on medication now, and therapy is not helping anymore so I'm looking for other help. I feel like my sexuality is severely damaged and my sense of self is completely gone. If anyone has any advice on how to move past this or has a similar experience, please let me know.
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