I have a fluctuating sex drive most of the time I am pretty okay but there are really intense periods where it is just insanely high, in my past this would result in horrific decisions. My sexuality is warped because of stuff I've been through so casual sex for me is probably the worst thing I could do.

I know the obvious answer is to get yourself off, but like I mentioned my sexuality is wired weird from grooming at a young age, so that stuff is really foreign to me. so when i get in the mood it is for a whole different thing. Im in therapy for that, so working on it.

So i was hoping for more avoidance based tips to kind of take the mind off of it, would love to hear any little tricks that help.