There’s been many times I’ve communicated with men that they were hurting me, please slow down, be softer, etc. They comply for a while then continue to treat me like a sex doll to hammer into. Pre-FDS I would just lie there and wait for it to end because I didn’t wanna be rude and stop him.

Now, after finding FDS I want to be prepared if it happens again. I don’t want to continue having sex with anyone that doesn’t care about my pleasure. But how do I withdraw consent and leave in a safe way? I feel like a man’s emotions are running high during sex and I am scared he would turn violent or force me to stay until he finishes.

Does anyone have any advice? I’m happy to lie with an excuse if that’s safer, as long as the sex will stop and I can leave.