There’s been many times I’ve communicated with men that they were hurting me, please slow down, be softer, etc. They comply for a while then continue to treat me like a sex doll to hammer into. Pre-FDS I would just lie there and wait for it to end because I didn’t wanna be rude and stop him.
Now, after finding FDS I want to be prepared if it happens again. I don’t want to continue having sex with anyone that doesn’t care about my pleasure. But how do I withdraw consent and leave in a safe way? I feel like a man’s emotions are running high during sex and I am scared he would turn violent or force me to stay until he finishes.
Does anyone have any advice? I’m happy to lie with an excuse if that’s safer, as long as the sex will stop and I can leave.
[–]autumnxo9217 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Fake like you're about to be sick, go to the bathroom, gather yourself, come out and say sorry but you're feeling very unwell and need to go - then promptly leave and ghost.
Source: unfortunately had to use this one a couple times, works like a charm if they think you're about to puke on them (added bonus of subtly insulting their lack of sexual prowess)
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