How will men in a relationship try to seek other womens attention/validation without it qualifying as cheating?

ENFP_Canadian · 2021-07-28T10:54:23+00:00

You'll know instinctively. You'll see behaviour that just won't sit right with you, you might try to explain away the behaviour and realize you're having a hard time doing so.

Also, if you think it's cheating, and it crosses your boundary, then it's cheating. LVM and NVM will reach over whatever line you have drawn without crossing it just to see how far they can push you. F that shit.

shockingupdate · 2021-07-28T13:17:45+00:00

Collecting a slew of “activity partners” that you know are his type. Had a NVX who had two distinct hobbies that are mostly male-dominated, but SoMeHoW 90% of the people he hung out with from those hobbies were women. I shared one of those hobbies with him so naturally he had excuses for why I couldn’t join when any of those women were around 🙄

He probably hit on them as soon as we broke up, which I imagine would suck when all that time you’ve considered him a good friend

LittleWinn · 2021-07-28T12:44:18+00:00

Easy. Become the woman’s “emotional support” or help her with things because she doesn’t have a man around like you do. 🤮

foodgrowerfoodeater · 2021-07-28T15:57:39+00:00

Anything to do with colleagues (calling, texting, even hanging out without being invited.............. just bad). Gaming with women online, half if not most of the time.

HumanAdhesiveness360 · 2021-07-28T19:49:03+00:00

Watch out for that one person he conveniently is in touch with whenever you're arguing. Also that girl who is "family"

fireforestfairy · 2021-08-05T10:50:57+00:00

By being close "friends" with them.

Title	How will men in a relationship try to seek other womens attention/validation without it qualifying as cheating?
Author	Sharp-Ad-402
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Date	July 28, 2021 10:50 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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