I mad a post about him from my backup account u/NothingFancyOkay and everyone on r/relationship_advice told me that it was okay that he called me fat and ugly. I’m sorry in advance if I used the wrong tag. I really really really need advice. My birthday was the other day (his bday is the day after mine), I had insomnia and anxiety and I just couldn’t sleep for some reason (this was the night before my birthday). So the morning of my birthday I was exhausted and he and I had both only slept for like two hours. I snuck out of bed to go smoke in the back of the house (I didn’t wanna wake him up by going outside which was wrong of me bc we don’t smoke in the house), I heard him wake up and yell my name, I came in, he called me an ugly bitch and also fat, so I told him he had a tiny dick (not true but I was angry.) he called me fat and ugly again and we went to sleep and when I woke up he made me leave our house that we both pay the bills at. He said “get the fuck out so I can be in peace!!” I said “I’m not leaving it’s my birthday!!” So finally I left because I was so upset, his bday was the next day but I didn’t come home out of anger. I think that made him more mad and basically we have talked for two days and I’m visiting family. Please please I am desperate and need advice