He’s a genius and a generous friend, but as I learn about his dating and social life, I have built a wall and he has noticed. He was recently dating/(and slept with) a woman in her mid/late 20s - he is 14 years older. I also dated older men in my 20s but I realize that doesn’t it right. From what I have observed he has a hard time getting /keeping the type of women he thinks he deserves (hot women) in America and doesn’t like the cute/smart women he has a shot with. So I notice he started going to latin America with his guy friends and says he meets women there on dating apps. I think theres an implied arrangement where the woman hangs with the guy all weekend and the guy obviously pays for outings. Idk if there’s a direct cash exchange, so it could actually be dating...but I doubt it, as these women are in poor countries and have limited economic options..they’re clearly entertaining these American men for $.

I am filling some wholes but based on what I do know, it seems its enough to cut him off. I guess since I was also very recently LV I wonder if its harsh to cut him off without talking to him.