This probably sounds kinda silly but it’s REALLY bugging me. I have sex with my boyfriend every day, often several times a day.
Ive noticed recently that every time he opens his google to search something, he’s always been searching porn videos. Pretty much every day or every couple of days.
I live in the house. I’m here and having sex with him regularly.
How do I bring this up? It feels like a dealbreaker to me.
UPDATE: I just broke up with him and left to stay with my mum. I told him that regardless of society opinions and whether or not other people may agree, regular porn use is a dealbreaker for me, especially when he should in theory be sexually satisfied because we have sex on the regular, and when I am literally in the house. It was super awkward and I feel really horrible about it to be honest but kinda relieved and strong that I stuck up for myself and my boundaries now rather than letting this eat away at me and give way to resentment in a couple of months.
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Good lord this is ridiculous. When the fuck is he watching porn if you live there? He’s clearly lying about his habits.
I masturbate a lot for a woman (every time I fall asleep) but I don’t watch porn and it’s not when I’m supposed to be actually doing productive shit.
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