I want to break up with my boyfriend because of porn

ENFP_Canadian · 2021-03-17T11:38:45+00:00

It is going to get worse.

My nvm ex watched porn so much that the sex went from daily to almost non-existent. I have a high libido so he could never use me not wanting sec as an excuse. He would actually brag about going to the bathroom to watch while I was still in bed. Then when we would have sex, he would complain to me that he had ED problems and was taking meds for it. He didn't realize that it was related to porn. It also made him extremely selfish during sex.

I dumped him last month. My anxiety disorder has suddenly disappeared. My sex toys never disappoint me.

If you want to leave because of this, you don't even need us to tell you that it's a justifiable reason. It's a dealbreaker for you and you've every right to walk away from this disrespectful man.

2021-03-17T04:14:24+00:00

“This isn’t working. We need to break up.”

The end. I almost started that with “I’m sorry, this isn’t working.” But I’ve decided to stop saying sorry I’m really not sorry about. I was raised to apologize for my feelings and opinions too much, don’t let that be you. Be free!!!

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2021-03-17T03:53:32+00:00

Good lord this is ridiculous. When the fuck is he watching porn if you live there? He’s clearly lying about his habits.

I masturbate a lot for a woman (every time I fall asleep) but I don’t watch porn and it’s not when I’m supposed to be actually doing productive shit.

ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-03-17T05:19:16+00:00

Your past three posts here have all highlighted different glaring red flags in this relationship, each one more onerous than the next.

I know it’s hard, but I think at this point you know what you need to do. This isn’t going to get any better, and in fact it’s likely going to get worse. Even if you try to communicate now you’ve built up a lot of resentment and it’s not easily repairable, especially because whatever effort he made in the beginning, it’s becoming clearer and clearer that it was all for show and now that he’s comfortable with you and assumes you wouldn’t leave him he can just keep giving less to you and receiving the same benefits.

He is literally leaching you of your time, your energy, your libido, and slowly but surely building up defense mechanisms and behaviors that are going to turn into major relationship trauma and anxiety if you don’t end it now. Please for the love of yourself, look at this objectively, take the advice you’ve been given, and end this relationship before you waste anymore of your youth and your time on him.

myownhater · 2021-03-17T03:44:45+00:00

This is not going to change. Ever. It’s going to get worse and you will start feeling like you’re not enough. Just leave him.

Jiou112 · 2021-03-17T03:26:40+00:00

Read the handbook. This sub is strongly against porn use. It is a deal breaker. Don't bring it up, just leave. Block, delete.

stillcantsee · 2021-03-17T16:05:27+00:00

Proud of you for ending things. It never gets better- the only option really is to just walk away!

Title	I want to break up with my boyfriend because of porn
Author	luceario
Upvotes	252
Comments	8
Date	March 17, 2021 3:21 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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