Backstory. My mother and I were having dinner. She noticed that I gained a few pounds. (I went from 110 to 120 over that pandemic) . She basically told me that I need to lose the weight or I will attract men that are “ less than”. She then went on a rant saying that men were put on this earth to provide for and protect women. And men that couldn’t do that are worthless. She then added that women were put on this earth to be pretty and those who can’t live up to the beauty standard are worthless.