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My ex sent me a photo of his penis

April 28, 2021

Hey ladies, I recently checked my spam folder (as i can't stand spam and delete it) but i saw a message my my ex that said "Lel" and i opened it and he sent me a photo of his penis. I'm disgusted right now, I deleted it but what do I do, this is the second time this year that he has emailed me but this has just gotten way out of hand, I want to vomit at the sight of it 🤮. Why tf is he doing this when I've told him to leave me alone previously and that I'd go to the police.

Please i need advice!

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Title My ex sent me a photo of his penis
Author 19Bubbles98
Upvotes 22
Comments 9
Date April 28, 2021 12:16 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/askFDS
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[–]pretty_killFDS Specialist 39 points40 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Forward the email to his mom lol

But joking aside, that’s worrisome. I would consider keeping a copy of correspondence in case you have to build a case for the police.

Otherwise just block his email. Is he emailing from different ones?

[–]19Bubbles987 points [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

Actually I was going to send it to his mum because he won't let up, she always put him in his place.

I've blocked his email, but it still ends up in spam unfortunately.

He's emailing from the one i blocked him from, if he was messaging from more I'd block them all!.

I can keep the email incase i need to go to the police 🤮

[–]19Bubbles9812 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Edit:he actually sent me another email saying "Don't open that email I accidentally sent it" how can you accidentally send an email like that to someone 🙄

[–]ASeaOfQuotesFDS Specialist 27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He’s trying to goad you into a response. He’s thinking that the first one didn’t work, let me make her think there’s someone else I’d send this flesh toothpick to so she gets jealous!

Just keep ignoring and don’t bother opening his emails, just collect them as evidence for online harassment.

[–]pretty_killFDS Specialist 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You aren't replying in any way are you?

[–]ms_monquisFDS Specialist 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It may very well have been an accident — not an accident that he sent a dick pic, just an accident that he sent it to you.


I might send it to his Mum anyway. :)

[–]Professional-Pea-317 18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I would go to the police already. That's repeated unwanted sexual contact.

[–]Twohagsover30 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You told him to leave you alone and go to the police. Do it.

File a do not contact order immediately. Bring receipts of your requests to not contact you and the content of the messages he sent/emailed with time stamps. There's no reason whatsoever to NOT get a file going on this harasser.

Don't give these men an inch of leeway. Shut it down.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If it’s the first time he’s ever sent you a dick pic, the police won’t do anything... even more so now that you have no evidence of this. Only when he repeatedly sends you dick pics would it be appropriate to go to the police, as it would be considered harassment.

But two emails in a year (that go to your spam folder) doesn’t seem like anything to stress about, unless he’s threatening you in these emails. All of my exes contact me like a couple months after we break up in one form or another. It’s their way of testing the waters to see if they can come back. It’s super common. And I also got the dick pic once after he realized he couldn’t come back. I assume it’s some effed up way of making them feel like they still have power. But he stopped after I didn’t respond. I assume yours will too. But if he doesn’t, keep all evidence.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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