I met this guy almost a year ago, both in our early 20s. He was the one that approached me and in the beginning I wasn’t really interested so I wouldn’t really respond to him, but at one point I did respond, we started talking and I started liking him. He was abroad for studies at the time so we would just text or talk on the phone, but he would say things to me about how we would do all these things once he got back and he painted the idea that he was looking for something serious with me.

Covid hits last year and he comes back earlier than expected and he just ghosts me. I didn’t ask why, I just texted him asking if he was okay like a week after and I got the vibe that he didn’t really wanna talk.

Months pass by and we started going out for around a month, he was really nice in person and acted like he was super into me but then I wouldn’t see him for a week and he was full of excuses so we end things not in the best light.

He texts me a few days ago asking how I’m doing, and it’s been like 8 months. I respond to him - dumb of me I know - and we talk for a day or two and then he starts taking 8 hours to respond to a text and is giving me mixed signals.

I’m done with the guy, I just don’t get why he texted me 8 months after only to do that. Doesn’t make any sense Hit me with the truth girls.