We met around 3 months ago and at first I wasn’t interested in a relationship. Don’t get me wrong - he’s attractive and definitely my type but I wanted to focus on other things at the time. However after about a month I responded to him more and decided to go on a date with him.

We’ve gone on two dates so far and both have been amazing. By far the best dates I’ve ever been on. He’s really sweet and I genuinely enjoy spending time with him. However I like to take things slow and he knows that I’m a busy girl who needs her space.

Anyway a few days ago we made out for the first time and I noticed he got hard. After a couple of minutes he stopped kissing me and I realized he had a wet spot on his crotch. He obviously jizzed in his pants. It was awkward and he seemed mortified but didn’t say anything. Just went to the bathroom to clean himself up. When he came back he awkwardly told me he needed to leave. Made 0 eye contact and left without even saying goodbye.

Later that night he texted me and apologized for getting a bit “too excited”. He kept assuring me that this usually doesn’t happen and joked that I must feel proud. I teased him a bit and he didn’t seem to mind.

So I’m wondering:

  1. Does this incident indicate his inability to last in bed?

  2. What does this say about his porn usage? Do y’all think it’s a good sign? I know a lot of men nowadays struggle to even get hard but I don’t know what to think of this.

Some extra info: he’s not a virgin (in fact he’s more sexually experienced than I am) and he himself told me that he doesn’t watch porn after I asked. However as we know men lie about that stuff all the time so I’m not saying that he definitely doesn’t watch porn (unless I do further research of course). Also he’s my age (22). Thoughts?