I’m 27 and a few of my friends turned 30 recently and I realised that I’m basically a toddler compared to them in terms of having my life together.

Don’t have a house and I’m not anywhere near close to being able to buy a house.

I’m single and seriously doubt this will change since no guy on this planet has ever wanted me to be their girlfriend. I’m only a casual sex option for them (fyi, I don’t have casual sex but that’s pretty much the only type of situation that is offered to me)

It has put me in a bit of a hopeless mindset because I realised that it is very unlikely that I will have a relationship or a house by then, unlike most people I know.

But I don’t want to get completely depressed about it.

What are some things that are admirable to have achieved by that age? Something I can work towards.

I don’t drink or do drugs, so anything related to that isn’t going to apply to me. (I know I’m boring)