Hey all,
So basically I (20F) have been talking to this (21M) guy for about a month and half. He seemed very interested in getting to know me and building to a serious relationship with me. He would tell me good morning every morning without fail for the past month and a bit and also respond quickly. Now over the course of about 4 days, there's been about 2 days where he hasn't said good morning and he also has started reading my texts but seems to purposely not reply till a couple hours later. I know he doesn't do much throughout the day so I'm not sure what could be taking him so long to reply but I could be overthinking it. I know it seems weird to notice these tiny things but it's because I got so used to/liked having him consistently showing his interest through those things especially since we still haven't met yet.
Again, we haven't met yet but we facetime hours on end and he's made his intentions with me known from the beginning. I noticed I started to become a bit anxious when I notice inconsistencies but I don't know if I should keep seeing how it goes because it might have just been a blip. Usually, when a guy is consistent, I'm not anxious so yeah. What do i do?
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There is little point in talking to someone you haven’t met. You have no idea what he’s really like (and even on FaceTime, men can give a very curated version of themselves). So in essence, you are getting emotionally hooked on someone who could have the worst of intentions (and yes, his recent withdrawal suggests he is interested in others). The question seems to be not so much whether he’s pulling away, but why are you trying to build a foundation with someone you don’t truly know? You could be wasting your time and energy.
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