Hi, I'm a 20f black college student and will be a senior in the fall. I will be turning 21 next month. I feel like I am on this sub every month asking for advice on how I can get a guys attention or love myself enough so that I can attract a relationship or even just losing my virginity or just attention period.
Every time I post I get so much great advice. I follow the advice but then it does not help me. Recently I have been using a 21 day love affirmation which promises to help the user find a relationship after 21 days. I have been using this affirmation for probably more than 21 days and am currently listening to it right now but I feel like it has not done that much.
I have realized that the only way for me to stop being upset about not getting any male attention is to actually just get male attention. I hate being alone all the time I just want to experience what everyone else my age is experiencing or has already experienced.
Please, please tell me how I can find guys, where I should go, what I should do in order to get the experiences that I'm looking for so I can move on with my life and actually start trying to become a HVW and level up. I hate continually complaining to my therapist and the internet about my lack of attention from guys while I watch other girls get boyfriends and have sexual experiences please this is just getting sad for me at this point. I don't wanna be 21 and have never had a boyfriend or had sex, I don't want to have a bachelors before my first boyfriend.
Thanks for reading.