Ok so i am still pretty new here, and implementing the plans, successfully but two steps forward one step back kinda way. Post history has my details

I have been thinking over all of the knowledge i am picking up from the books - been through the main ones and am currently on ways of the superior man. I have started to make sense of things and i have to say i am particularly interested in the female psychology aspects that are captured by the knowledge. Although "we" went from alpha to beta across the marriage, she concurrently viewed us as beta not alpha. I dont think it is always just that we lost our balls after marriage. Our balls lost their value for a while (kids) Alpha to beta is surely not our own doing alone.

Of particular interest is in my perspective is dread, which is really evidence based hamstering on her behalf that her beta might actually have alpha options. For example if the man goes out all smartly dressed, and comes home with evidence of success - e.g. a phone number in the pocket, of course the wife is going to go into overdrive thinking about what actually happened whilst he was out. If we add on the dread sequence she has a lot of evidence to suggest that she might not be so high on that pedestal after all. Lets face it, he has been working out, dressing better, behaving cooler, going out more. Its unlikely she thinks it is for her benefit. Dread gets the hamster going in a sexual competition way.

So this brings me to active hamstering. Normal hamstering is when she passively generates a thought sequence that elevates into concern / anxiety. If she asks when will you be home, and you stfu, she will hamster (maybe that you are a mute retard but i digress) passively (on her own accord). If any situation occurs that leaves doubt / potential negative consequences in her mind, she will hamster. It does not have to be sexual. it might be is he going to be a cock head in front of my father now he is half drunk?

Active hamstering is to normal hamstering what dread level 6 up is to the passive dreads. What the fuck am i talking about? I want to know if there are ways to crank up the hamstering deliberately. Why? because if she is stressing it will throw her frame off, she will be thinking more about me, what i am doing, and what adjustments she could look to make. Why else? my wife has a strong frame, and does not hamster easily. E.G. If she is waiting up when you are out and you return she will feel relief. Why is this good? because this is a strategy i can employ across a shorter time period. Now i am sure like dread one must have ones game together before any of this will work. But i do believe in a psychological game beyond dread that we are not playing. In short, yes, it is fucking with her head / mind games, just like pua game does with single girls.

SO i really believe that there is some wife game we are not playing.

Give me an example Simbarlion...

suggesting she get out of town with the girls / create deliberate absences (ie be specific about a night / weekend) Maintain a degree of secrecy over phone or whatever (what is he hiding?) - Just look at the advice given when she changes her phone password... Talk too much about jane in accounts (fake dread - i know this has been advised against before.) There is lots more.

So really, Its a bit like GAME for PUA (false status / persona etc) except in our case with the intention of demonstrating preselection / leadership and alpha behavior. This thought direction is a fundamental part of pua game really, but i don't think we are actively using psychology beyond dread in mrp situations. I presume it is because the wife knows us too well, but I still think there is opportunities there.

Clearly overcooking this will be at your own detriment (just like dread). But well timed and appropriate ''ínput' might just tip things slightly in our favour.

Tell me if you disagree / shoot it to pieces (i already have my flak jacket on)