Advice asap

SteelToeShitKicker · 2016-09-03T16:59:29+00:00

Shrug. The cat will come back when he is hungry.

There's no finding a cat that doesn't want to be found.

In the future, try proofreading your posts, and try to use english grammar. If you are ESL, pretty decent english, but I think you are not.

drty_pr · 2016-09-03T19:17:58+00:00

The truck to being a man is ownership. Why are you so scared to be honest?

BluepillProfessor · 2016-09-06T16:37:20+00:00

Is it really a shit test when you legitimately fucked up?

Sepean · 2016-09-03T22:04:57+00:00

My only concern is that my present mrp mind set may not know exactly how to handle this without coming off as an asshole.

You have the MRP mindset and you worry you'll come off as an asshole? Does not compute.

You made a mistake. Say oops, and put up some posters if it doesn't come back, it might be locked in somewhere so get people to check garages and basements. Don't be all freaked out, just solve the problem calmly.

If she keeps on pestering you about it, A&A it.

drty_pr · 2016-09-03T23:15:03+00:00

You are in the "defend yourself " mode. When you are being defensive you are not in charge of ……… yourself.

Called, owning your shit. Right or wrong, you did it, you own it, no big deal, move on with solutions not excuses. Simple huh?

cholomite · 2016-09-03T23:23:27+00:00

I have cats and I love those little fuckers. I'd kill a bitch to keep them safe. I'm going to assume your woman is like mine and would be freaking out and in a panic about it.

You fucked up and you need to do everything you can within reason to make it right. The most important thing is to take charge and keep your cool. Make a plan of action and follow it. Give your wife tasks to do (making posters,calling neighbors, calling animal control or whatever) and handle other tasks yourself.

You need to do everything you can while also being the rock and prepared to handle a worst case scenario. Basically, you're the ships captain and you steered your boat right into a storm. Keep a clear head and do what you have to do to get out of it. Don't let your wife's shit tests get to you. Handle shit the best you can, if the cat comes up dead give her a hug and tell her it will be alright. If the cat comes back act like you made it happen and play it cool.

drty_pr · 2016-09-04T13:49:14+00:00

If you own your mistake, then you need to show it by putting your big boy pants on and attempting to correct it. She doesn't want your comfort here, she wants to see you in action owning your mistake. Lost cat posters out. Head out on a half hour drive over the next few days around the neighborhood to scout for the cat, and call local shelters or whoever would pickup a roaming cat for the next week or so. Acta non verba.

Cats are faggots.

Title	Advice asap
Author	drty_pr
Upvotes	1
Comments	21
Date	September 3, 2016 4:55 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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