Art of Seduction Ideal Lover Type

I've used Ideal Lover successfully all my life, but you mustn't over do it. Also, not all women respond to it, since some find it as if you are lowering yourself before their eyes. "Ideally" you're not becoming smaller in her eyes at all, you're seemingly entering her spirit. You're confident; you're all that a man should be for himself, but also you're so secure that you have the ability to somehow enter her world momentarily. Why can't a man understand me just for once?

And momentarily is the key to most seduction. You only mirror for a moment.

In reality, you're not ideal. All you're ostensibly doing is giving her the feeling that you're validating her taste, but you don't declare it as your own. You're echoing her desires but not necessarily agreeing with them at all or even seeking to satisfying them. He understands me! Now can I get him to be mine?

Women want to be validated, preferably by something that is unbreakable. You don't have to actually try to validate her, just listen, allow her to be open, make her feel validated.

Again, "ideally" you're so unmoveable and unshakeable in yourself that you aren't threatened to consider her world briefly. Of course you can't enter her frame (!) that would break the spell. But wouldn't it be amazing to get your complete opposite to understand you for just a moment? Give her that feeling - that moment - that you could understand her world. To her, you seem to be moving toward her reality - her ideal - but really you are drawing her into your frame, she wants more of this man. Maybe he's that one guy in the world who gets me.