29, 180cm, 190lbs, 18% body fat

Bench 110kg / Squat 140kg / Deadlift 220kg

Married 4 years, 2 kids

I posted my first OYS just last Tuesday, and tonight had the divorce talk I mentioned I was expecting. But after she sucked me off.

I left the house after the kids went down to sleep. I got a text saying that we needed to talk. I asked what needed to be said, and she said she was miserable.

I used fogging and put my phone down for a while. When I checked again, there were a number of messages outlining things she had done which she hoped would be a sign of commitment to our marriage.

Last week, she told me she hates me twice. Figuring I couldn't do anything to make her respect me less, I told her that what would really prove her commitment would be a sloppy blow job with lots of eye contact. She sent back some outraged protestations, to which I told her to warm up her jaw.

I came home later and she was up. She told me to take my pants off and then she sucked me off. Almost immediately after began the talk. It was a long list of the ways in which I had changed from a kind, loving, sensitive man into a angry piece of shit.

She also listed the things she had done because she loves me.

We discussed court proceedings. She teared up a little towards the end.

As best I could, in my autistic way, I tried to fog, negative inquiry and occasionally broken record my way through the thing (I had to BR on my insistence that I would have 50% custody of my kids).

This talk has happened before. But in the past, I broke and kow towed. Admitted how I'd been a bad husband, and promised to change.

This time, against my instincts, I didn't do any of that.

Now, she says she's taking the kids to her parent's tomorrow for an indeterminate amount of time. Again, in the past, I would've demanded or begged her not to do that. But this time I simply said OK.

Why would she give me a blow job and then divorce me like that?