37 years old, lawyer, 3 digits a year ($), tall, good looking, reasonable fit, married for 5 years, daughter 2 years old, alpha for as long as I am aware. English is not my primary language so sorry for any mistakes when writing.

Wife 35 years, big pharma propagandist, makes as much money as me, short, she is a 7, I am an 8.

Problems: Dead bedroom and equal money making.

Before we had a child we used to fuck like rabbits. Since my daughter was born my wife became a bitch. She wanted to give privilege to her family and put my family in second place. In her words, "when the kids come, it is usual that the couple stays a lot more in touch with the mothers family". I fought with that and won shit tests from hell. I had a bad time but won. Sex, however, was almost non existent.

When my daughter was 1 year she had encephalitis. Worst time of my life. Daughter almost died but recovered exceptionally. She is, however, late on talking skills.

I am a very good father. Change diapers, feed, put her to sleep, when wife is not there. Play with kid every day.

Wife has a job that envolves a lot of night activities, like 5 times a month. She has reunions, meetings, dinners, and during that time I stay, alone, with the daughter, providing everything she needs. I don't like these events and do that for the wife and believe I deserve recognition and sex for doing so. Once a year the wife stays out of the country for 10 days and I stay with the daughter. Again, I believe I deserve recognition/sex for that.

The thing is, since the daughter was born, we have sex 2~4 times a month. I would like to have 2~4 times a week.

She makes as much money as me, but acts like if she makes more and is the provider of the house. I had to show her my finances and what I pay in the house in order for her to realize how much money I put inside our house (we don't mix bank accounts). It is clear to me that since she makes as much money as me she feels like she is totally independent. Our house is way better than she could buy by herself, and way better than her colleagues', but she just can't see it. And it is payed; we have no debts at all.

Divorce is hard because I want full contact with my daughter, at least until I feel she is full recovered and has catch up with kids her age.

I have little sex and a wife that feels like she put more money in the house than me; what can I do?