Why or why not?

Curious to see the various views here. I've always opted to not bother with having access to those things just to avoid mate guarding, looking insecure, and driving myself crazy with checking up on shit. I always felt like if you had to keep tabs on that stuff, you're probably already fucked. I also think if someone wants to cheat they can find ways to hide their shit no matter how much they're watched, unless they don't know they're being keylogged or something.

On the other hand, I've seen a few posts around here where guys say if you're not watching your woman's shit you're fucking up, and I can see how that has some merit as well.