ME: 39, 5’9” 220 at 14% B-295, SQ-485, DL-500, OHP-225. I make under 100K BEFORE taxes, both wife and I are in school and work full time and we both have a second career in State controlled Armed Forces. We have two kids (7,12) with one of them being special needs. I have been leading my family for the past year. Recently promoted at both jobs. I am the strongest I have ever been. However, something is not quite right.

Previously, our sex life was mediocre. Once I realized it was my fault I quit blaming and resenting my wife for my shortcomings and became the best man I have ever been and continue to improve. I get IOI from women constantly and even my wife’s younger, hotter sister told my wife I am a DILF. I’ve had a couple plates over the past year, but since dropped them both once I realized I had more than enough abundance mentality. The problems are twofold.

One: She always shit tests me. IT IS F’ING CONSTANT. EXAMPLE: Today we have inclement weather in our state. Due to this, daycare would not be able to pick up our kids from school. I called the wife and let her know I would be leaving early to get the kids and she says “We are getting out early too, I am going food shopping. Would you like anything special?” Like I am so hard to buy food for that it has to be SPECIAL. I told her no, since I wouldn’t be working out today I didn’t need anything carby just gratuitous amounts of meat. She then had the nerve to offer to pick up the kids, so I could workout and make something for me when I get home. She, is normally a great cook but now she acts like I am so incompetent I can’t even cook for myself.

Two: SEX. Still using today as an example. I got home from a long day at work and changed out of my suit and sat down to ask everyone about their day. My wife brought me my favorite meal and straddled me while I ate. There was nothing there. ALL she did was sit on me. When I finished eating I told her I was still hungry and asked if she had anything else more me to EAT. And what did she do? She giggled and began to grind on me. This was the last straw.

The kids were doing homework so I picked her up, put her on my shoulder and took her to the bedroom to have a TALK. I finally told her “You make my job of running this house a lot easier, and your aren’t to shabby to look at either.” After this I STILL had to grab her hair and make her give me a blowjob, for some reason tho, she had an orgasm.

So, have I dreaded her enough that she stays on track with adding value to my life or should I keep talking to these girls that give me IOIs?