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FR: Plate spinning

June 1, 2017
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So I'm currently spinning 3 plates. All is separate parts of the country but I've been unable to f close with them due to logistics (I'm not going out of my way, i.e. Travel across the country in my free time to fuck). So just a few days ago, I'm in one of the cities in which a plate lives. She's 12 years younger than me. Fairly well traveled, personable, we get along well. I opened her up a few months ago but only come through town every other month or so. She's always made it a point to be available when I comes through.

This time we planned on hanging out the evening I got in. I ended up being delayed a few hours. We ended up going to brunch the next day. After brunch we headed to the hotel as I had a few hours before I needed to leave. I have to say that she prob put on 20lbs since I saw her last....2-3mo's. So we watched a movie, chatted a bit but I just didn't feel like fucking her. She's not a fat troll, she's tall like me (6') but def thicker than original.

So after telling my MRP buddy about this, we were kind of split on my decision in this scenario. I could've easily stuck my dunkin in her donut hole, but I CHOSE not to. I blame it on my lack of attraction toward her physicality, my buddy says that I pushed out pulling some nice guy BP orbiter bullshit.

After I left town, she texted me, saying how nice it was to see me and that if I ever come to surrounding cities that she'd drive there to hang with me, so clearly she's still in.

I personally don't give a fuck either way. Half of me says I should just take it down, because a hole is a hole. The other half of me says that I can do waaaay better and to drop this plate and spin another.

What the fuck is going on in my brain?

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Title FR: Plate spinning
Author wn36
Upvotes 0
Comments 22
Date June 1, 2017 3:46 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askMRP/fr-plate-spinning.206079
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[–]SteelToeShitKickerRed Beret31 points32 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Sounds to me like you are an orbiter to 3 girls. If you aren't sticking your dick in them, they aren't your plate.

Validation for nothing and the orbiters for free.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol yep.

You currently have three friends.

[–]nopeToThe43rd3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, that's not spinning plates...

[–]Blunter-S-Thompson2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

And what do we have for our winner?

[–]wn36[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, not that bad, but funny nonetheless.

[–]Blunter-S-Thompson6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It is that bad. And, no, it's really not funny.

You're fooling no one but yourself.

You're wasting people's time (+ energy) with this garbage.

Justify and hamster all you'd like.

I'll let Patrice O'Neal drop some knowledge on ya...

"You're a fucking phony. Okay? Listen to me, I can't even mince words here. You're hoping to FRIENDship your way into some pussy.... She's using you. Let me telly you what she's doing. She's using you. I'm going to tell you what women use us for. OUR TIME. You're her little time boy. You're time hoe. You're a fucking space hoe. A time hoe. A MOVIE watching hoe. A help her lift her fucking bag up the stairs, hoe. A come here and kill this mouse hoe. A OMG the other guys I'm fucking treat me like shit, hoe. You are her HOE, buddy boy "

Men - "I'm gonna fuck you but go to the movies with someone else"

Women - "I'm gonna go to the movies with YOU and fuck SOMEBODY ELSE.

If you ain't fucking her, then you're a girlfriend

[–]wn36[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's fkn funny.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're their girlfriend.

You chat, watch movies, get brunch.

That's cute.

[–]RPAlternate42Red Beret12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

So I'm currently spinning 3 plates

but I've been unable to f close with them

What the fuck is going on in my brain?

You don't have plates and you think you do. That's most of the problem.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

So I'm currently spinning 3 plates. All is separate parts of the country but I've been unable to f close with them due

you arent spinning anything

[–]stdrp9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

stuck my dunkin in her donut hole, but I CHOSE not to.

Please don't write like this.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I originally though he was quoting ODB. Now im not so sure

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No f close = no plates

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus Christ.

What do you want? Right now, you only have make out buddies in three locations. From a sexual standpoint, that's about as impressive as a thirteen year old discussing his "Canadian Girlfriend" after Summer Vacation.

Fuck them or don't. No one here gives a shit. Plates are about sexual satisfaction and abundance mentality. Either these three ladies fit into your mission, or they don't. I don't occupy the space between your ears, or hang out in your groin.

Time to decide for yourself.

[–]ReddJiveRed Beret3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

you want permission? Or was this a humble brag?

[–]wn36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I didn't ask anyone for permission. And according to the other posters, there's nothing to brag about, nor did I think there was.

[–]atlhartRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No one cares.

This ain't Dear Abbey and it ain't your diary. Write something insightful or ask a thought out question.

This offers noting of value to the community, so it's not a FR. and there's no real question except some shit about your brains aka Feelz.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you don't want to fuck the girl, then why would you keep her around? Jesus, just cuddle and go to brunch with your wife. At least she provides some value to you.

Any girl who isn't providing value should be cut out.

[–]donedreadpirateRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If this is the case, I need to up my plate count considerably. Girl at the grocery store was totally eye fucking me yesterday.

[–]wn36[S] -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

This was mainly me trying to figure out the psychology behind my decision to not fuck came from. Was it leftover BP mentality or abundance mentality because I know I have choices? Knock me if you want, I couldn't give less fucks. Just haven't been able to self analyze this one because in the past, I would've plowed it.

[–]ReddJiveRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I couldn't give less fucks.

so much so you had to come here and tell us.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I suspect your solution can be found at the gym.

Lowered T is a symptom of the Blue Pill life, and a very direct cause of not being able to seal the deal when opportunity presents. Kill it at the gym for a couple weeks and combine it with no-fap before your next meetup with the prospective plate and you will be hitting it hard.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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