How Do You Guys Even Trust Your Girl?

SteelSharpensSteel · 2019-12-30T17:32:42+00:00

part_wolf · 2019-12-30T16:28:43+00:00

The short version is, I only trust my wife to do what’s in her best interests. Then I work as hard as possible toward my mission in a way that puts me in the position to be her best possible option by far. If you understand what your woman needs and wants, it’s not difficult to incorporate those things into your mission if you so choose.

Onein1024th · 2019-12-30T16:43:14+00:00

I wonder how do you guys even trust your girl isn't gonna cheat on you for a guy with higher SMV even if you're doing everything possible to up your own?

Dude, she should be wondering if YOU'RE cheating, not the other way around. Get your shit together. 12 Steps of Dread. Do you even have an active social life apart from her? Are you involved in a group that gets you out with others away from her once a week?

cholomite · 2019-12-30T15:25:31+00:00

The only thing I trust my gf to do is to act like a woman in any given situation.

fannyfire · 2019-12-30T15:19:07+00:00

I usually text my wife every half hour or so and just ask her to tell me she loves me and promises to never cheat on me. Our relationship has never been better.

macheagle · 2019-12-30T14:55:57+00:00

My gf isn’t mine to begin with. I do my best to make sure her interest in me is actively maintained, but at the end of the day I am at peace with the fact that she is not mine - it is only my turn. That is a fundamental part of TRP - to let go of what you ultimately cannot control. Any control you feel you have had has been an illusion all along. And the fact that you care so much indicates possible scarce mentality. Practice abundance mentality and naturally you will also care less, because you know you have likely equally good options and alternatives everywhere.

This is the very premise that you’ve gotten wrong. Make sure you fix this before going into an LTR my friend.

Sepean · 2019-12-30T17:34:06+00:00

The guys with higher SMV are banging 20 year old models, I don't see the worry here.

scarmine34 · 2019-12-30T19:05:41+00:00

I actually typed out a response and then I saw SteelSharpensSteel's comment/link: https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/e2yc72/traveling_gf/f8yp8i7/

TheRealCheekClapper · 2019-12-30T15:00:17+00:00

Just keep on clappin cheeks and/or getting your cheeks clapped. It will work out in the end.

-Acta-Non-Verba- · 2019-12-30T15:27:34+00:00

You need to know her character. She should not have become your girl if you don’t trust her honesty, truthfulness and fidelity. And don’t believe everything you read on the internet. Red Pill assumes every woman has low characters and will cheat under the right circumstances. Low character women willl. Women with a strong moral code won’t.

Pete_Worst · 2019-12-30T17:41:13+00:00

Because I'm high SMV. It's useless to worry about shit like that because if she cheats, then I'll just move onto the next one whereas she'll be chasing and failing with guys like me forever while being miserable. Stop posting shit like this

boy_named_su · 2019-12-30T16:00:58+00:00

How does a bank trust you'll pay your loan back? They check your credit (her cock history)

2wo2wo3hree · 2019-12-30T15:49:31+00:00

This post belongs in the Red Pill Women category.

It seems like your boyfriend is your life mission. Don’t do that. Your partner is never #1.

Forget about other men’s SMV. Worry about yourself. It’s the only SMV you can control.

“ I know I should NGAF but at the same time ”

-you’re basically saying, I should not look into the barrel of this LOADED gun with my finger on the trigger but at the same time...”

Dude... you are not getting “IT”. You need to REALLY read the books in the sidebar. Also... you talk like you don’t lift. Go lift.

WolfofAllStreetz · 2019-12-30T15:56:27+00:00

Be better than her.

yarmysmardarm · 2019-12-30T17:11:38+00:00

Ancient proverb: Trust in God, but tie your camel.

RoccoPinkman · 2019-12-30T18:19:01+00:00

If you had any value at all you would NGAF because it would be her loss if she decided to cheat.

Other than that, check her knickers are clean every time she comes home.

aita2899 · 2019-12-30T18:59:21+00:00

You don’t. You have an abundance mentality and understand if that bitch runs Off you have others to take her place at all times.

IATAsshole · 2019-12-30T15:15:05+00:00

Until my girls fucks a higher SMV man we’re good. In the meanwhile I’m not going to spend my brainpower pondering if I can trust her to not do so.

redwall92 · 2019-12-30T17:24:50+00:00

Sounds like I have no balls, I know, but I'm just genuinely asking a question about trust here.

There's your problem. Stop worrying about her, and find your balls.

nantucketghost · 2019-12-30T17:29:55+00:00

It's all about you being the best you that you can be and making yourself better.

There will always be a higher value guy out there. Whatever. Your girl isn't going to jump ship unless you're a lame fat lazy guy that she can't brag about.

This of it this way: Your girl is in a group of girls and they are bragging about their man. Can your wife brag about you? Ideally you're the guy that all the women wish their man would be. Even if you're in the middle of that pack your fine.

But if you are the type of guy that your girl is embarrassed to talk about or she has nothing good to say about what you're doing or accomplishing, then she is the girl that will jump off your ship if something better comes along.

You don't have the be the guy on the top of the mountain, just be the type of guy climbing the mountain.

red-sfpplus · 2019-12-30T21:32:53+00:00

I do not trust anyone.

Title	How Do You Guys Even Trust Your Girl?
Author	AttractiveMofo
Upvotes	20
Comments	58
Date	December 30, 2019 2:51 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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