How/When To Work On Improving Bedroom Dominance

February 1, 2017
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Question: I want to up my "dominance" game (ala SGM) and improve my initiations, but honestly it makes me a bit nervous. Is that a good sign it's too early, and I should just focus on myself and forget initiating?

Or should I work through that discomfort and get rid of the fear of failure by trying and failing/learning from the process?


Context: Hey all,

I've been working on MRP stuff for a few months now and have seen a lot of real progress - broken a 1.5 year-long sexual moratorium, looking much, much better, working on leading more, passed some major shit-tests, gotten some IOIs for the first time in forever, etc.

But I'm still working on those things, and frame/not being butt- is a big weak point for me.

Right now, one of my area of improvement is initiating with my wife. Historically, I've had shitty, half-assed initiations (the classic "slowly rubbing your back for 20 minutes hoping you respond"). As I've improved myself and read up on the subject, I've noticed my wife exhibiting some signs of a "submissive" style of sexuality - she doesn't lead in bed (expects me to), doesn't initiate overtly (just kind of puts herself in my general orbit more than normal), takes a while to respond to initiations, etc.

In short: she doesn't make it easy for me in any way, and I've had trouble reading her responses or picking up on whether she's receptive or not.

Question: I want to up my "dominance" game (ala SGM) and improve my initiations, but honestly it makes me a bit nervous. Is that a good sign it's too early, and I should just focus on myself and forget initiating? Or should I work through that discomfort and get rid of the fear of failure by trying and failing/learning from the process?

What's worked for you? Thanks!

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Title How/When To Work On Improving Bedroom Dominance
Author resolutions316
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Date February 1, 2017 8:59 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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