Stats: Married, 2 kids, age 45, 166lbs, 5’8 Max BP: 245 Max Squat: Unknown 225lb 4x8-10 Sidebar: NMMNG, WISNIFG, RM, TWOM, TWOASM, DREAD Saving Low Sex Marriage, MMSLP and Atomic Attraction.

I would be interested in knowing the communities views on the hypocrisy (or not) of cheating. Men who cheat but get mad when their LTR/Wife cheats. Plates or jump offs are excluded from this.

I personally believe that if a man cheats and then his LTR/Wife cheats, he should be able to take it on the chin. Now the decision to stay or next may be dependent on the investment and stage of the relationship.

I’ve ask this question to personal buddies and they’ve stated they would leave. Two said they would take it on the chin and these two are spinning plates. One is married the other in LTR.

I understand that men and women cheat differently and there are exceptions to the rule.

What are your thoughts? Would you scorch earth if your LTR cheated or would you take it on the chin b/c you’ve cheated also?