Been realizing lately that I really don’t like the way my wife treats me. We have sex all the time. I’m pretty high value. Really high to her. But I can start doing more around the house. I feel she is always telling me what needs to be done. Instead of me telling her. Sometimes it’s shit I don’t even thinking of “cutting the cats nails”

Anyway. She has been nit picking everything I do like crazy lately and it’s driving me nuts. Watching everything I do online. Yes we both have IG. I use it for both business purposes and recreation. She will comment on the shit I like and try to fight about it. Or the women who follow me. Etc. She like stalks it. Whatever. Also says I seem distant and she wants my attention so I been trying to really do more things with her and give her that. I know the dread is high. But when we get alone time she always has something she wants to be pissed off about. I’m getting the hang of STFU and getting her feels back to a more positive side but it’s not always easy. And if not I’m just dealing with a miserable person who has 1000 questions about every move I make.

She works 7pm to 7am And I work and gym from 7am to 6pm so when she works we don’t see each other at all. This lack of attention can be the root of this. But the time we do spend together she is nit picking at how I am. It’s almost making me want to just leave.

The situation I’m dealing with now is. I didn’t get to see her so I sent some love and a picture her way. It started with her saying aw and ended with. Asking if I’m sending pictures to other women. I pretty much tell her no dummy and move on. She wants to then say I have a groupie of sluts who obsess over me. I just ignore it. I know she’s trying to fight. And it’s over text.

She sends more stuff to pick a fight. I continue to ignore. Then I later ask what time she took the dog out last. I come home to a note saying when and list of stuff she wants me to do. (Fuck here she goes beating me to the punch and giving me chores that I should be doing or assigning to her) in my defense she’s home a lot more.

The next day I knew I wouldn’t see her again so I tell her have a good day and I love her no matter what issues we got going on we’ll get through it. She ignores it and asks something irrelevant later. I answer. Then goes trying to pick a fight again. I ignore.

So I’m left with comforting her not working. Yes I did the chores as I should have anyway. And I just been ignoring her. Tomorrow will be another day I don’t see her.

I also log onto the computer and her iMessages were open. It always is. There was a text thread from the other day from some dude coworker. Pretty harmless and work related but he did use flirty words. I just let it go. When I went on today his message thread was deleted. All the other ones were there. And she usually never deletes shit. I found it quite odd as if something was said in between when i saw it last. But I’m not going to say anything.

I won’t see her till Friday how I go about all this until then? Is continuing To send “have a good day I love you” messages a good idea. Or should I just continue ignoring her tries at fighting and wait till I see her Friday.? I feel like I might be fucking up somewhere either by giving too much comfort. Or too much ignoring I’m not sure. Also the text from the dude coworker something to worry about? She literally never entertains other dudes ever. So I found it really odd to see it even deleted for whatever reason.