Low Sex Marriage as the Norm

redwall92 · 2020-09-17T11:25:31+00:00

How do you deal with the influences of low sex marriage from [whatever] ......

Short answer???

Get rid of this mindset:

Obviously I am looking to improve individually and improve my marriage.

And adopt this mindset:

Obviously I am looking to improve individually.

As a side note since it seemed to be a main part of your question - Who cares if your friends are sex-poor or cash-poor?

SelectAirline · 2020-09-17T21:08:09+00:00

It's also the norm for households to be buried in debt, men to shove their poorly groomed dad bods into poor fitting tees and cargo shorts, their wives to eat their resentment and get fat, and for everyone to float through life without any sort of direction.

If you've found this place, then what the fuck does the norm have to do with you?

SBIII · 2020-09-17T11:57:29+00:00

Health and Fitness – Home gym set up, dumbbells, sand bags, and body weight exercises.

You think your buddy's low sex marriages are going to infect you like fucking Covid?

Newsflash - you're already on a fucking ventilator.

Go lift some fucking weights instead of fagging around with this shit and trying to White Knight your friends.

This is MRP - you don't fix your friends, you don't fix your wife, you don't fix your marriage.

You fix the man - get that into your thick fucking retarded cunt headed skull.

BobbyPeru · 2020-09-18T05:52:04+00:00

This is not a bad question for someone 2 months in. So, I’m going to give it a full answer even though you posted it 18 hrs ago. Even if only you see it, it might be worth the time.

Many came here with low sex or no-sex marriages... the men who have done the work have turned that around... usually dramatically.

The fact that you are worried how friend’s marriages will affect yours tells me you lack frame, and you are probably in a low sex (quality) marriage at a minimum... if you aren’t, you will be quickly with that type of mindset.

Read the sidebar, lift, do OYS posts weekly, and you will no long worry about such things happening.

I will say this... I’m almost 5 years into MRP, and my wife will have sex with me whenever I want ... literally. I don’t say this to brag. I say this because when I 1st started the MRP journey I was having sex, but it was once a week duty sex. Now, quality AND quantity has increased.

As our sex frequency increased, she has tested me several times ... usually it was along the lines of “Bobby, we have way more sex than most couples who have been married X number of years.” It’s a test to see how I react. I always just kept it simple and said something like “that’s because they’re doing it wrong baby.” Followed by pulling her in close for a long kiss or an assslap.

That’s called frame.

She’ll still comment about how much sex we have occasionally, but now it’s to say how awesome it is. Do you see the switch?

Leadership x frame = It doesn’t matter what your friends are (or aren’t) doing.

At the end of the day, it’s about you though. Become the man you want to be and the rest follows.

RicoDunne · 2020-09-17T15:39:47+00:00

Low sex marriage is not the norm if YOU don't want it to be. You're friends are lame, so don't be a crab in that bucket. You have to give a woman what she needs not what she says she wants. She needs masculine leadership in and out of the bedroom. You have already told us there's none of that in your relationship, so fix that.

red-sfpplus · 2020-09-17T15:29:19+00:00

Why would I care how or the frequency of which my friends fuck?

Sepean · 2020-09-17T11:33:54+00:00

How do you deal with the influences of low sex marriage from some of your closest friends? Anyone else see this in their friends and direct relationships?

Of course we see that around us. Most men are pussies.

I just ignore it. I think my wife talks about it with her friends more, and when she gets drunk, she sometimes shows off to our friends by telling how she gives blowjobs every day or such. I can't recommend it, especially men with low self esteem react poorly and become hostile towards me.

BostonBrakeJob · 2020-09-17T16:49:24+00:00

Is that really your question? You quit letting it influence you. Or better yet, you never let it influence you in the first place.

RedPillPadwan · 2020-09-17T17:12:24+00:00

I agree that this is a problem. She’s getting the message from all her friends that sexless marriages are normal and appropriate. Media also social media are telling wives that they’re beleaguered, tired and doing such important work raising their kids that it’s completely normal to ignore their husbands. You’d have to be one hell of a Chad to overcome all that. How much easier would your job be if all her friends were swingers and nymphomainiacs? Problem is there’s nothing you can do about, so there’s no point dwelling on it. When my wife mentions this I just say ‘that might work for those guys, but that doesn’t work for me.’

MrChad_Thundercock · 2020-09-17T11:41:00+00:00

Faggot.

Part of all of this is becoming your own mental point of origin. Becoming the best version of yourself.

Do it for yourself. Who gives a fuck about the “state of the marriages of most of my close friends”. Yes, they’re blue pill what do you expect.

Once you become Chad, all the other wives will be giving you IOIs.

redarcher99 · 2020-09-17T21:46:01+00:00

Once you start lifting and doing everything on the sidebar you'll be more of an alpha and the one influencing your closest friends (rather than being influenced by them in negative ways). If they're smart then they'll look to you for advice and you'll have opportunity to help them unplug.

Idigabighole · 2020-09-18T05:08:27+00:00

How do you deal with the influences of low sex marriage from some of your closest friends?

You dont.

Redpillbrigade17 · 2020-09-17T16:42:15+00:00

How do you deal with influence you deem bad in other areas of your life?

screechhater · 2020-09-20T19:43:31+00:00

"How do you deal with the influences of low sex marriage from some of your closest friends? Anyone else see this in their friends and direct relationships?"

LOL I depth charge the friends that spout "Happy Wife, Happy Life"

Your life is yours to live and you need to decide to what standards you live your life by including what your level of acceptable physical needs are

STFU, Lift, Sidebar - focus on you

mungkiyatzu · 2020-09-18T10:34:06+00:00

What kind of question is this

Title	Low Sex Marriage as the Norm
Author	ApostropheSs
Upvotes	20
Comments	51
Date	September 17, 2020 11:20 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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