She's had it for a couple years. Treatment helped but it's now progressing again. Wife wants her to move in with us so she can take care of her. Seems like a reasonable and compassionate thing to do but I don't want her to move in and then live another 10 years.
My possible responses
- hard no.
- yes, but only if you're her hospice nurse. In other words, when she's terminal and it's clear she only has months to live or can't do normal things on her own.
- yeah sure, the more the merrier.
I'm going with #2 when she brings it up again. Do you guys have any thoughts on MILs moving in in general and in a special case like end of life care?
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