After Rereading the way of the superior man. I realized when my woman would seem to be in a bad mood or less energy. I would remove my attention and affection thinking I’m “punishing bad behavior” when in reality. She wanted love.
I realized this and it has been a total change. I can bring her up just by keeping my energy high and happy and showing her love. I never did this before and I would withdrawal and things wouldn’t get better.
But this has me thinking isn’t this a bad thing or a beta trait? To constantly show love and affection? Our relationship is still fresh and I do love this girl. I love to see her happy she’s such a great addition to my life. I have got my shit together. I still have my own independency. I’m working tons. Saving. Investing. Lifting BJJ. make time for friend and manage to fix all the shit around the house when it needs it. I’m ripped and although I don’t work with women. Or get much free time. When we’re out she sees how women look at me. So the dread is there. The sex is almost too much for me to keep up but I haven’t REJECTED HER yet.
But I do constantly show love. Bc I want to but there’s this voice that says. Red pill says don’t do this. But she responses so well to it. I dk if this is some attachment issue on her part. She isn’t a pain at all but she loves my love and affection and I do give it all the time. She reciprocates it.
I just have this paranoia that overtime this is going to make me seem beta. Is this as simple as pulling back if behavior or sex frequency changes?