I'm about 3.5 months into my MAP. Working deeper into dread level 3. 6'1", 225 lbs and good lifts.
Last night, I came home from work. Wife and I had plans to go to the gym together (it's amazing how when she sees me making it a habit and sticking with it, she hops right on board and comes along), then to dinner and drinks and a planned night out (neither one of us had to work early the following morning.) She gets home from work and complains about not feeling good, so I went alone and worked out. When I got home, I showered and got ready. She was lying in bed watching tv, the entire time. I asked her about how she was feeling and she reported she was feeling better, but showed lack luster motivation to get ready. I told her playfully, come baby girl, get that sexy ass up and get ready. She blew up and started shit storming, saying I was being pushy and treating her like a child ordering her around. I laughed it off and teased her, then she finished getting ready and got into the car and we left. Had a nice dinner and a drink and came home.
We walk in the door and she says the famous, "we have to talk." I knew what was coming, so I looked at her and smiled and said, " what's up babe?" She proceeds to tell me that I'm an asshole and I treated her like a child telling her what to do. She proceeded to say, that I'm a selfish jerk who always puts my needs first, and I'll I care about is sex. I laughed at her and said, "yep... you're right, I can be a jerk sometimes, and I absolutely love sex with you, it's fun!" She yelled and fitted some more, I heard somewhere in there she hated me or thought I have always been an asshole, and some other blah blah shit about her threatening to leave the house for the evening... (I put the words right now after these types of statements in my head). She said, you want a submissive 1950s wife, should I put on apron and make you cookies??? I laughed and responded, "I like chocolate chip the best!"
At that moment she began to break from her frame and come into mine because she paused and actually stated to laugh. Then she calmed down, and we actually began to have a nice and pleasant conversation. We went up to bed that night and had some super hot passionate sex, with round 2 early this morning, with her texting me throughout the next day.
My point is, although I'm learning and far from a red pill master, I can see this shit really works to improve ALL areas of my life. It is so true that when you began shifting from blue pill pussy to a red pill man with balls that does not give a fuck about pissing your wife off or her emotional storms, she really does fall in line and move into your frame. Her shit tests still come, but that's her way of confirming you're on the path she sees you on, giving her positive feelz.
I'm always looking for advice and constructive criticism on here, but I'm sure I'll will hear that I still care too much about my wife. That may be the case, but of course I care, she's my wife. BUT, I care a hell of alot less about her emotional storms and pissing her off.