I'm in a 2 yr LTR. We both have kids from previous marriage. We see each other every other week. Friday night I told her my 11 year wanted to spend time with me instead of everyone getting together, which I shared with my LTR. She proceeded to rant about not wanting to force anyone to get together.. Then she said I shouldn't come over. I insisted I would, twice, but she persisted finally telling me it wasn't important to her anymore. Additionally, throughout the day she was pushing my buttons on political issues and insinuating she had a sensitive topic she wanted to discuss in person. All of this convinced me that she wanted to break up. So I just said ok and good night to her. She said she didn't know how to fix it.
So I figured that she essentially broke up with me and didn't reach out at all Saturday. She didn't either until late that night. She asked if they're was anything I wanted to talk about. I didn't respond and she texted back saying I was passive aggressive and that she deserved a response. I eventually responded that I didn't want to talk about anything.
I'm trying to determine the "medium is the message", and thought her drama was her saying "please break up with me", but I don't know anymore. I think my gut is telling me it's over but I don't know how to react now to determine if that's really the case. I don't know what to do right now.
Btw, the sensitive topic is regarding her anxiety over us. I refuse to totally move in and she hates the feeling of me basically living with her one week and then her being single the next.