I've been separated for a year now. Everything is going great except that I've lost my drive and I can't figure out why or how to get it going again.
The divorce process was hell and it isn't done because the house hasn't sold. But all the hard stuff is behind me and the outcome will be OK. Just waiting for the house to be sold to wrap up the financial part of things.
The kids are doing well. I've essentially won equal access to them, just waiting for some paperwork to be completed and get entered into a court order. The kids are happy and adjusting well. Our time together is really good.
I'm living in a nice townhouse. It isn't a show home, but it is bright, clean, quiet, in a good part of town, with lots of green space, etc. I can't ask for much better.
I'm dating a really good woman. Because that is what I want. I enjoy her company, we do lots of things together, sex is great, etc. I'm getting everything I want from the relationship. Very little drama.
My diet and fitness are doing well. I'm lifting 4+ times a week, depending on my schedule. 6'1", 215 lbs, benching 230, preacher barbell curl 80-90, deadlifting 300, etc. I look good. Women touch me.
My problem is that I'm not really motivated any more. I've got the bills paid and frankly I don't give a fuck about much else. I have a bunch of menial tasks to do associated with the divorce that I just don't give a shit about and can't really bring myself to do.
I've got a good project to work on. Haven't done much on it for a few weeks now. All I want to do right now is buy a motorcycle and go on a long, long ride. Some of it is escapism, but I can't explain the rest. I know this urge is somewhat juvenile and yet it persists.
Anyone else gone through this sort of thing ?
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