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She wants to feel appreciated, what's that mean?

January 23, 2017

She says she wants to cook/clean, etc but needs to feel appreciated for it. When I ask what that means and how I should show her, she has no answer. Help me out!

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Title She wants to feel appreciated, what's that mean?
Author Idunnowhy2
Upvotes 1
Comments 22
Date January 23, 2017 4:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askMRP
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[–]blarggggggggggg6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

When a woman cooks for me I always tell her how delicious it is. I look her in the eyes, smile, let her see how much I'm enjoying eating the meal. Throw in a 'mmm' here and there.

Once the dishes are put away I initiate sex.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Never take the work your wife does for you for granted and never allow her to take the work you do for granted.

I pick up after myself, never assuming that picking up my stuff is my wife's job. It isn't. I rinse out the sink thoroughly after shaving. I put my dirty clothes in the hamper.

If I'm going to miss a meal, I let her know as soon as I know. While this might fly in the face of the 'be mysterious and unpredictable' teachings of /r/marriedredpill, I believe in being considerate to someone doing things for me.

I don't say thank you for cooking and cleaning just as I don't expect her to say thank you to me when I come home from work. She has a job, I have a job. We stay in our lanes.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

She wants the toilet paper fairy to get credit for what she does. Just yesterday after opening a window, lighting a candle and clearing out the top floor of my house I told my wife how much my ass appreciated the toilet paper in the bathroom always ready to go when needed.

[–]SepeanRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't listen to her words, this is just an attempt at controlling to you and testing your frame.

This MRP 101. Women don't tell you what they want, on the contrary; you have to ignore their bullshit and just get it.

[–]Nyquil-Junkie1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Did you ever learn to say "thank you"?

[–]KyfhoMyoba1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The man's desire is for the woman. The woman's desire is for the desire of the man.

And by man, I mean alpha.

[–]abdadaRed Beret0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

Did you read the sidebar material?

[–]470_2_700_nm0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

With... your dick.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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