What have been some of your most effective examples of dread?

anythinginc · 2016-07-17T18:28:25+00:00

For the newbs, this is dread. You should be an interesting and attractive man with a full life and plenty of options. Proof of that should come from other people. Don't talk about your options - let her figure it out.

most effective forms of dread

Passive dread, levels 1-5, as long as it's not part of a colossal covert contract. If you're an interesting, attractive, funny, confident man, then women will want to fuck you. One of them might be your wife.

2016-07-17T19:20:52+00:00

starting to see a swing in her attitude.

Oh boy, maybe she will fuck me now and respect me!

its different for everyone. Prof apparently got to fuck me or fuck you.

I skipped to 10 without going through the whole process step by step.. backed up, slowly got to about 9 -10 ( 10 is a big NMMNG thing).

Thats when the fact that she has some unresolved past issues from before me came out. She is working on them now. I am still at 10 without being an ass-hole about it.

So , not being an asshole is key - definition of asshole? OWN your shit and don't blame her for yours even if she "caused" it. In the end, YOU let it happen.

How to not be an asshole = if your game is on point, you look good, you are cheerful and fun, almost nothing you do short of wholesale murder will make you an asshole in her eyes.

If you are a schlub, buying nice shoes makes you a dickheaded asshole.

Oh, and keep in mind, this is for Sex.... respect should start much earlier, and may not be fixed no matter how much she or anyone else wants to fuck you.

Level 11-12 : Honestly I kind of don't see the point of these other than your own ego stroking. Just get a divorce.

fuckmrp · 2016-07-18T02:52:41+00:00

Passive dread is the byproduct of becoming the most awesome version of yourself. Anything else and you're expending energy in creating an outcome you can't control.

2016-07-18T10:23:39+00:00

A cheap and easy one is to buy a few pairs of nice underwear.

A man should treat himself well andl dress nicley anyway

2016-07-18T14:47:33+00:00

first off, lol on the history

Number one rule of a good lover is the woman always cums first.

Secondly, don't worry about dread right now. If guys are confident enough to manhandle your woman in front of you, the gym and the kitchen should be your focus.

Also, stop dreading to get a reaction out of her. This is a sad road that way too many men go down. They 'sprinkle a little alpha' on the relationship, then get pissy because she didn't follow the covert contract.

/u/adderallabuse has a short, but very deep comment. When you understand why, you'll know you have frame.

Until then, buy the underwear, and lift like your life depended on it. Eat protein until you shit sandpaper, and get some sleep

bogeyd6 · 2016-07-18T14:59:38+00:00

Your single most effective dread is lifting weights. Lose the fat, gain the muscle. Once your visible SMV has surpassed hers. Your body will be doing dread for you. This I cannot overstate enough. The entire MRP program is an uphill battle until you can win the sexual market contest. You want a quick and easy way to get the biggest gains in your dread but there is no such thing unfortunately.

My MRP program worked so well and with success built on success because my wife's smv was equal to mine at the start, and then it wasn't very hard to surpass hers because she is a bit older than me. I feel sorry for the 460lb man married to Ivanka. That would take a really long time to get even equal to.

2016-07-18T20:53:14+00:00

The most common heavy hitter is pre-selection bias. But other than that it will likely be tailored to your situation...that whatever level you were shittiest in before is likely to give her most pause when you improve it.

Im hoping you posted this more out of curiosity...rather than to try and copy paste. Copy paste is purely applying dread for the sake of her reaction...not for you...so it's a covert contract (IE im specifically applying this dread because it affects my wife the most)

redstripedanimal · 2016-07-17T18:13:42+00:00

What have been some of your most effective forms of dread and at what level of dread?

That you stop doing dread FOR HER, at almost every dread level.

SDSAM21 · 2016-07-18T02:33:19+00:00

Best accidental dread ever……

I came home from gym. Told wife I saw a woman that my wife thinks is attractive and kind of flirty. Said the woman told me to tell wife, hi.

Later that afternoon, wife seduced me…… and I never saw it coming!

Title	What have been some of your most effective examples of dread?
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