31y, temporary not lifting because of pandemy, good career in technology.
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Me (31M) and She (29F) are together for 3 years, living in the same place and occasionally planning to have children.
But something that we always discuss is the frequency that we visit her family and meet her friends. I like them but i prefer to use my weekends to chill, have sex, read or do something that i like (after do all the chores, what is very tiring)
Last discussion was about when we have children, She would like that her family be more present in child's life. I said that's fine, but not all weekends because i want to raise my children on Our way, without to much influence from others.
Just to you know, last time We visit her family was 3 weeks ago. I visit my mother yesterday, but last time i see her was about 1 month ago.
By the way, I am a only child and She has 3 sisters. I'm very comfortable with visiting family 1x or 2x times a month, but she always complain about this.
What do you think about it ?
TL;DR Wife complaining about the frequency we see her family and friends. I'm worried that will be worse when we have kids.
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