I made another post but the mod said I needed to post the full story of my life before getting anything approved.
I've been RP aware for 5 months but I'd say I was trending the RP direction for the last 5 years. I'm 35 and my wife is 36 and we've been married 6 years. I have a daughter from an ex-girlfriend and she has two daughters from a crazy ex-husband.
When we met she had a good job but was poor because single mothers always are. I had a successful business and a decent amount of money. After a year or so we moved in together and then 6 months later I bought a house. Six months after that we got married.
When I bought the house she quit her job because it was too stressful and she wanted to work on planning the wedding. After we got married she worked for my company although that wasn't always the best situation. Over the past year or so I encouraged her to find a new job because the work dynamic wasn't working out that well.
Over the years I've heard all of the standard stuff including ILYBINILWY.
She bitches a lot about stuff and likes to shit test and demean.
The sex used to be great but has slowly dried up. Every now and then we'll go through a hot spell but overall I'm not satisfied with our sex life.
Contributing to her low desire is the fact that she gained a lot of weight. She's 5' 2" and 165-170lbs. When I met her she was a little chubby but went on a diet and did some exercise and got down to 130 lbs. She looked amazing then.
Just trying to figure out where to go next.