This new guy started working at my wife's job apparently, And she keeps bringing him up with negs i.e "he's weird" "he does things funny" "he looks mean" etc. She then tells me a few days later "I gave him my phone number and told him to text me if he had any questions about work and he told me he's engaged WTF. I was totally not even trying to come onto him like that, isn't that stupid?"

At this point it was hard to maintain frame but I did and just brushed it off with a "ha..." but honestly felt like calling her out on her bullshit. How do you handle this fuckery?

Tl;dr Obvious wife wants new co-workers cock in her mouth, how do you handle a woman bringing up another man constantly?

(Originally posted in asktrp...looking for different perspectives)