So my wife somehow got access to my phone. I have an iPhone. She doesn’t know my password. I changed my iCloud password and somehow she is able to not only see my contacts but has been deleting them.

She saw a text from a girl who I had been with in the pass. It was just her wishing me a happy birthday and I never speak to this girl so it wasn’t even a thing in my mind. She went in and deleted all these females names who I guess she suspects I’m talking to. Some of these are work related or just previous acquaintances. either way idk how she has this access. I changed passwords and checked my phone for an app and can’t find anything.

She then hit me with all these questions and flipping out about the text. I told her it’s just a text. If she wants to leave over a text be my guest but this hacking my phone shit needs to stop.

She kept trying to argue. I had no interesting in this. My DNGAF is at an all time high with this shit. I got up and went to the gym. When I came back I walked over and said give me a kiss she said no kept turning her head and I kept fucking with her until she laughed. Then we both laughed together. She still was all pissed of but at least the shit stopped and I didn’t let it affect my mood.

But I think she still has access. Again idk how. Anyone familiar with how she’s doing this?