Every since I started this journey things have been going way better. But lately my wife keep asking me if everything is all right. And is like stressing to keep up almost. I told her what I expected out of the family because she was just laying around. And she started to pick up the pace but now she’s like going overboard.

She will call me while I’m at work apologizing that she didnt get a chance to put the dishes away. Or dumb little things. It’s almost like she’s living in fear and it’s giving her anxiety

I stopped caring about her so much and will get laser focused on work or something I’m doing and she will say I seem upset. Asking if everything is alright. Am I sure. Etc.

It’s honestly starting to get annoying. I tell her no everything is fine with a smile. Because honestly it is.

I told her she can relax everything is fine. And she doesn’t need to stress about the little shit.

But she will still ask if anything is wrong like every single day. How do I stop This?

Also where does the line get drawn between being a leader and pretending your wife is dead.

I keep questioning myself whether I should be asking her for help or do things. Or Just doing everything on my own. I don’t want this to give her an excuse to be lazy again