This is not exactly a question but a good real world example of being blue pilled and expert analysis of Rollo on this issue.

mods: if you deem this unfit here feel free to delete it but I think it'll help a bunch of people.

Tech lead is a YouTube vlogger/content creator/coder who worked for big companies like Google and Facebook. His wife left him and took his son with her.

Tech leads wife leaves him

Rollo's analysis