Approaching during social distancing?

April 4, 2020
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Should one refrain from approaching and doing active game during this time and just do passive game for the time being? Or is active game okay?

If active game is still game (lol), how have y’all be going about it due to the circumstances?

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Title Approaching during social distancing?
Author SingularityOne198
Upvotes 3
Comments 11
Date April 4, 2020 4:05 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]CarelessBowler53 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I just kinda raise my eyebrows at my wife and she takes her clothes off.

But more seriously, just hang tight for a couple weeks. Educate yourself on the pandemic situation and economic situation to make sure you're positioned well in the middle of uncertainty.

If you're well put together while everyone else is freaking out over the next couple months, women will approach you!

And keep working out. I have an at-home bodyweight routine that'll kick your butt.

When everyone in public is wearing masks (like Taiwan, South Korea, hong Kong, and others who have gotten ahead of things) then cold approaching is game on again.

Focus on your mission, bruh.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Haha, I’m not married, so I don’t have that luxury!

Positioned well, in what way? I already got it and have gone through my mandatory quarantine (I’m 24) and it was only bad for a day and a half or so. I should have built up immunities to it so I won’t get it again and won’t pass it to anyone (hopefully).

Yeah, I don’t have much fear in all of this Panic, so I’m fine there.

I’m doing 200 pushups and 100 sit-ups 4/7 days of the week as of now. Anything else you recommend adding?

Wait, so you’re saying when everyone is wearing masks, then it’s fair game to cold approach again? Why do you say that?

Agreed. Mission is currently going as I’m in grad school and pursuing my reading goals outside of that during this time of abundant time, haha.

[–]CarelessBowler51 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

When everyone is wearing masks, we're not sharing viral particles willy-nilly. You can approach a woman, both of you in masks, she doesnt need to be concerned that just talking to you she's gonna get infected and then pass it onto her immunocompromised grandmother - for example.

Positioned, I mean look 2 years down the road at how the world is changing. Understand the impact of $2.5t+ magically proofed into existence overnight. Set up your career and your finances so you'll be in a good spot. We call that wisdom. Think for yourself and look at the big picture.

Try this workout. https://youtu.be/vc1E5CfRfos

There was a two year stretch when I was in and out of the hospital for lung surgeries. At the time it seemed like forever, but as I look back it was just a blip on the radar of my life. This pandemic will be too. Glad to hear you're using the extra time profitably

[–]Billy_King1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Pro tip: do v ups instead of sit ups

[–]Deep_Strength1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Come on man. Be smart and wise.

This is a good time to be working on things like building up relationships through texting or video (not just with women).

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

So you’re saying that it’s not smart or wise to cold approach at all and to just develop relationships I already have established during this time?

If so, could you explain why this is? I could see that if I was wearing a mask I could cold approach, but I’m interested in why that would be a bad idea.

[–]Deep_Strength1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I'm curious as to why you don't see it as a generally bad idea.

Even if you're immune yourself or can't be a carrier (which is debatable as there's a lot we don't know), how is approaching others being considerate in a stressful time... unless perhaps you're doing it to comfort them or share the gospel or something like that. I'd look at your motives rather than trying to get to know girls.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

One part of me is seeing it as a good idea so my social skills/cold approach skills don't deteriorate (which may be focused on myself to the detriment of the other and not loving the other as I should; as I will come to from the other part of me).

However, another part of me says that it would be a bad idea because it could create an opportunity for the other to experience fear from approaching them in that they don't know that I have had the virus, have gone through the quarantine period, and most likely am immune... even though we don't know much about the virus as of now.

Yeah... I am not doing it to comfort them. However, my way of being in being a temple of the Holy Spirit could shine the Light of Christ for them so that they don't have fear and share the gospel in doing so. However, this may be a self-justification that is false in that I know that I am mainly wanting to cold-approach because I am feeling lonely during this virus-period and want to find a wife.

[–]Deep_Strength1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

One part of me is seeing it as a good idea so my social skills/cold approach skills don't deteriorate (which may be focused on myself to the detriment of the other and not loving the other as I should; as I will come to from the other part of me).

The skills don't really deteriorate. It's mostly just getting over or getting used to social anxiety, especially with women.

I can assure you it goes away over time as you get to a point where you don't care about impressing or proving to yourself to women. This is mostly what you want to focus on as it's the root cause. Once you get that down, everything becomes much easier because you relax and it makes her more relaxed. And ironically it's when you'll be the most successful with women

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I see. How does one specifically/practically grow in that area?

[–]Deep_Strength1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What works fairly well is friend zoning women in my mind. It's their job (unknowingly of course) to convince me to to be interested in them from both their outer and inner beauty.

As a default if they're a friend you're generally not going to try to impress them or prove yourself. You can just be yourself (assuming yourself is the best you can be and acting on mission for God with excellence).

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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