Goals for first date?

February 8, 2020

We are going to a bar to play some pool, darts, ping-pong etc.

I’ve heard that keeping the 80/20 rule with talking is a good metric and playing games, etc.

Any tips y’all have for first dates?

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Title Goals for first date?
Author SingularityOne198
Upvotes 5
Comments 10
Date February 8, 2020 7:19 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/askRPC
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[–]Praexology2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

  1. Be Attractive.

  2. Don't be unattractive.

  3. Don't "see where the night goes"

  4. Decide whether you want to see her again. Follow up and if she is weird about setting up a 2nd date - then she isn't worth your time.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

What do you mean about #3? I understand the other points, for sure.

[–]Praexology0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Set mental parameters for the date, don't drag it back to your house or hers.

[–]Billy_King1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Don’t be...tense? Get to know her better, be yourself, and make a few jokes.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha, nice. Yeah, that’s what I did. Thanks.

[–]Rifleshoot1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Have fun? Learn more about her? Your mindset is already to a bad start: you are trying to “win” this girl. Let her win you. Like secular RP circles like to say: “women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of relationships.” As a Christian man, you aren’t going to be seeking pre-marital sex. So that leaves you with the power of deciding if you want to start a relationship with this girl. So have fun, get to know each other and relax.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That makes sense. Helpful in the switch of mindset, thanks.

[–]Deep_Strength1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

  1. Practice leading.
  2. Be open about yourself and how you operate to show her that you have a good potential for being a leader
  3. Find out more about her to see if she's someone you'd want as a follower
  4. Have fun and tease her

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Agreed. Thanks for the advice. Did just that. - Date 2 is in the works.

[–]Deep_Strength1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


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