For the last 3 months, I've taken steps to put my family back on the right track. I said last time that I'm not willing to keep going the road we were on, that I'm going this new direction, and I want her to come along. The last 3 months have been good. Then, what seems to be a major shit test.

In the context where divorce is not an option, how do I proceed? Besides prayer and continuing to pursue my own mission, do you just let things fall where they may?

I've been told that this marriage is now on paper only, so I'm a unsure how to respond. Part of me wants to be like "fine then, I'm done with you too" but I know that is a selfish and childish response. But likewise, I have no current desire to pursue anything meaningful or tangible with her right now either, knowing full well that it will seem like a childish response as well...