I'm a long time lurker of most things redpill. But I think this is my first post. Married ten years, four kids. We have a decent marriage, though I still have a ways to go in learning how to truly lead well.

My wife has a genetic issue that has led to chronic pain and fatigue. While many things about being a good husband, lover, leader, etc. don't change, we have a number of challenges that I haven't seen discussed anywhere. The combination of redpill, Christian, and chronic illness seems to be especially rare.

Does anyone know of resources (blogs/podcasts/books) that address these kinds of situations?