$6k gift from a plate with a love note - wtf?

mksu911 · 2020-01-20T02:38:05+00:00

Congratulations, you are now beta bucking females and have transcended.

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2020-01-20T10:30:40+00:00

$6k? Damn! My plates have BPD ffs!

Livecrazyjoe · 2020-01-20T10:04:47+00:00

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KaiSmashSmashSawmash · 2020-01-20T03:32:51+00:00

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Patches0wholahan · 2020-01-20T02:28:07+00:00

First off, this gift changes nothing. The watch is sill hers. However I suggest to tell her thank you. And that if she wants it back, let you know. Tell her you like it, and that you are going to wear it a lot. When she asks for it back, give it back to her.

Second, I’d wear the shit out of it. Call her over. Bang her while you wear it. Bang other plates while you wear it. Wear it while you work out, wear it while you work in your yard. When someone says something about it, shrug your shoulders and say it’s not the “half million dollar model” but “insert joke about keeping time.”

I’m not a watch guy, but I did have a Sub Mariner at one time. Fun while it last, just like this plate. Enjoy your time.

clausternn · 2020-01-20T07:57:44+00:00

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mikkeldaman · 2020-01-20T03:58:26+00:00

It's OK to allow women to sometimes act as your sugar daddy... if only for the material perks. But you should never allow one to buy your commitment.

Foolishoe · 2020-01-20T02:22:14+00:00

Buy NIO calls expiring right after the next earnings quarterly report

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2020-01-20T08:28:58+00:00

Don't change or do a fucking thing.

She sent you a watch with a note. That's all her choice and not your responsibility to deal with. Especially when you told her the score.

Say thankyou.

If she initiates 'the talk'...play it as always.

The way you deal with this is how you would always deal with plate's affection. Don't let the price of the watch or the note change it.

kankouillotte · 2020-01-20T10:39:45+00:00

what kinda forceful way is this to make me get into serious relationship?

That's actually pretty well known. A lot of TRP material clearly states that women behave just like beta males when confronted with a man perceived of higher value. It's the exact equivalent of beta male in a no-sex relationship offering a pricey engagement ring and/or luxury vacations in hope of "rekindling" the relationship.

It makes a lot of sense though, since the theory is that beta male behavior is the result of listening to female dating advice : your mom, your sisters, the girls you orbit around. They aren't "lying" to you per se, with their advice : it's actually what they would do in your place.

Beta dating strategy is actually a female strategy

Foolishoe · 2020-01-20T14:59:20+00:00

Where the fuck did she get that kind of money first off?

It's a great gift. Maybe make sure she orgasms all over your face before you take her to pound town?

I like to get my blowy first then make her hold her ankles for 15 minutes or so. Whatever method works on whatever vagina is essential after that. Some like it soft some hard some a variety.

I think communication during and after oral is pretty essential with a partner early on and every now and then to perfect technique and maximize the level of orgasm for both parties.

She's not looking for commitment in return, she's saying thank you for whatever you've already done, SHES invested which is great. I'd treat that girl better than others but still as you said you have your limits.

Still thinking how the fuck does she have that kind of money to blow.

tripmepls · 2020-01-20T02:35:12+00:00

Keep the watch, you earned it.

Gawernator · 2020-01-20T05:26:53+00:00

She’s obviously not struggling if she can drop that for a present. Enjoy the gift.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-01-20T07:48:04+00:00

Clearly she's balling if she can afford to gift that so easily. If she's a regular minimum wage worker, you got yourself a problem

ChiefFuckingBull · 2020-01-20T05:44:33+00:00

kept man

WalterHuey · 2020-01-20T08:46:09+00:00

We are all whores, we just sell different things

VigilantSmartbomb · 2020-01-20T10:23:33+00:00

Just do what you want my man 👌🏽👌🏽

If she wanna spend the money fuck it- you didn’t ask her to and it’s not like it’s putting her in hardship. Accept the gift and fuck her good lol

If at some point you wanna end things then end them. Up to you if you wanna give the watch back or not tho. I wouldn’t for both yourself, and her.

sebastianconcept · 2020-01-20T10:58:43+00:00

What a situation!

I’d say is fair to tell her that you don’t want an LTR for the next 10 years and offer her to take the gift back (to discard that she might be unconsciously trying to transact your LTR for it and by doing that you will protect you and her from that silly move). If she understands and insists anyway, they is okay keep it but the object, for you, will carry the symbolic meaning forever.

Keep plating her should be fine.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2020-01-20T11:05:59+00:00

IME, that watch is an anchor. Now she's going to expect more from you, and if you don't give her what she wants, she's going to hold it over your head. When you've had enough and break it off, she's going to come back for the "gift" and have a prolonged argument about why you don't want to be with her.

Give that shit back and break it off.

2030isCloserThan2003 · 2020-01-20T15:08:38+00:00

Crazy how this feels like it’s in an alternative universe but it’s what most females are doing today lmfao

flatbushwick · 2020-01-20T15:48:01+00:00

Yup, you have officially come full circle. Keep the watch. If she try’s to imply that you owe her a relationship in exchange tell her that it is your body and you do not owe her anything.

chazthundergut · 2020-01-20T17:23:53+00:00

Keep the speedmaster.
Let it slip that lately you've been really hoping for an A. Lange & Sohne

Psychological_Radish · 2020-01-20T05:14:40+00:00

What's the question in this flex of a post, exactly? Should you accept it or not? I think it depends. Personally, I wouldn't unless she was wealthy, but that's for moral reasons. As far as the relationship goes, it doesn't matter.

You're right that this is a typical Beta move, but you'd be surprised how far some girls will go to secure a guy that they view as Alpha. I had a long distance plate/FWB who would regularly fly across the country at her own expense to spend a few days with me. One time I went to see her and she put us up in a nice hotel and dropped tons of money on activities. She had a lot of money, so I never felt bad about any of it.

Toowhammy · 2020-01-20T12:05:04+00:00

Yeh you need to handle this right. And be a man. You need to give her the watch back and gently and firmly tell her something close to what you told us.

WiterS2 · 2020-01-20T10:00:43+00:00

How old she is?

HastaPronto90 · 2020-01-20T15:25:20+00:00

give it back to her, except she or her parents are rich af

extraterrestial · 2020-01-20T15:52:02+00:00

If 6k is alot to her then give it back, she might not be in her right mind then.

Hedser91 · 2020-01-20T17:49:36+00:00

Do you love her, maybe think about being in a ltr with her. But if you dont love her and never will, it would be better to give her back the gift and end the whole plate thing with her is my 2 ¢.

convictedfeline · 2020-01-20T17:53:28+00:00

I’d give it back. TRP isn’t about becoming a woman or losing your dignity by accepting gifts. Don’t stoop to their level. By accepting you’re really only turning your dating strategy into a woman’s strategy. We’re here to re-define masculinity in a feminist world, not seek power over women by becoming one. True virtue is priceless. You can save 8k in a few months time or less. Do you really want to be accused of being a shallow materialist or blacklisted by this girl when the relationship ends? She’s going to have expectations, so squash them now.

PimpinLikeIceberg · 2020-01-20T19:11:29+00:00

Pimp that shit my G !

Put the watch on next time you see her and hit her with : " you tryna buy my exlusivity with it ? All you buying is more of the good sex you get..."

In a cocky & funny manner...

Be an iceberg slim with it !

SavorThePill · 2020-01-21T01:25:33+00:00

Ah yes, she's put her flag on you. That watch is a reminder that she owns a piece of you. She'll hold it over your head if (or when) shit goes south; it's all leverage, my friend. If you keep it, I feel as though you're making a deal with the devil.

Mr_Sick_666 · 2020-01-21T16:28:18+00:00

Woah

goathunter05 · 2020-01-25T06:44:31+00:00

should probably follow this user

beefstockcube · 2020-01-20T04:32:55+00:00

Well its worthless mostly from a retail standpoint. She can't return it, it's now a used watch.

I would sit her down and explain that you can't buy a relationship. That you appreciate that she took note of the throw away comment and that you intend to wear the ever loving shit out of it.

Then carry on regardless. Do whatever you were intending on doing before the gift.

PhaedrusHunt · 2020-01-20T14:04:53+00:00

Marry her, let her pay for everything, then divorce rape her, sue for alimony. Tell the judge you've become accustomed to fancy watches and boats.

You got this brah.

riggedved · 2020-01-20T02:26:21+00:00

Return it. Give her the money back. Say you dont deserve it.

Plasticannihilation · 2020-01-20T03:01:52+00:00

Thank her, and then tell her you gifted it to someone else.

Like someone else you liked.

Title	$6k gift from a plate with a love note - wtf?
Author	lolurfucked
Upvotes	168
Comments	135
Date	January 20, 2020 2:15 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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