So, I know that this fun vs serious discussion already came up a lot here, and for what I can remember the usual response is "whatever floats your boat, as long as you're comfortable with it and isn't a boring fuck".

I've always been the serious type at best, the boring one at worst. I guess I've been conditioned to be so. And yeah, I was clueless about getting girls and now I'm changing that, and trying to figure out a way. When I try to actually be the fun, crazy one, I feel like I'm forcing too much, tryharding. My default humour is more sarcastic, witty based, """intelligent""". I'm an introvert.

Is it possible to actually be successful with girls being "serious", knowing that I'm a 20yo going to college and hitting on young women probably on the CC (or at least having that opportunity)? That feels kinda weird, hard. Girls just wanna have fun, right?

And I don't drink. Anything. A few reasons for that, none particularly good, but this is something I wouldn't like to change just for the sake of getting women. But of course, a considerable parcel of young women, specially in a bar/club scenario, already consider me boring for that reason only, if not they wonder if I'm some kind of hardcore religious maybe.

That's one of the main reasons I'm really not into this bar/club scene. So, does drinking actually make this much difference? And if I'm really not comfortable with clubs, in what other places could I find attractive young females open to approach? Day game? What more?