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Abused, virginal or dying - A pattern of shit tests

January 26, 2016
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I've been noticing a pattern throughout my life of shit tests of a certain.... caliber. I possess a delusional amount of confidence, I'm funny and playful and all over the place. I attract girls easily but sometimes have trouble maintaining. Recently I was told by a HB8 with a kim k body that she was a virgin on the phone while we were talking about how much she wants to be my little slut. Mind fuck eh? I know what my mistakes were with her. I was too available because she was too attracted (and attractive). The first convo I had with her she told me her parents were abusive to her both physically and emotionally. She reminded me of this throughout our interactions. (My mom that bitch bla bla, my dad doesn't even care about his daughter yada yada). She even volunteered she had a disease of her reproductive organs (now cured) that might have lowered her fertility. Was this to soften me up? Not to stroke my own ego but I'm witty and leave articulate women speechless all the time. This woman told me it had been a long time since a man had left her speechless (she push pulled, I push pulled better while staying on subject). Could her ego feel the need to score points at my expense because of the way I operate?

4 years ago I met a girl at uni. We hit it off and started fucking around. I dominated her completely. She told me at one point her dad had died from Hep C and she had it too. She told me her liver was showing signs of deterioration already and that's why she didn't drink alcohol. People at school had commented that her eyes looked tired all the time and the whites of her eyes were not as white as they should be. All signs of a bad liver/Hep C (google'd it). When she told me I instantly softened up and told her I didn't think I could act the same towards her. Needless to say, her attraction for me started dying as those words left my mouth. My subsequent interactions with her reflected a softer version of myself which furthered her dis interest.

When I was a 14 year old high school freshman a beautiful girl started showing me attention. We became an item. A little background: She was top 10% looks and popularity wise at our school and so was I (even though I was fat). We were together for 4 years, we went to prom together. We never had sex. Everything but sex. Fingers throughout, head a few times, hand jobs on the reg. Ofcourse I wanted to fuck but I wasn't assertive about it. She told me she had been sexually molested by "a bad uncle" and she wasn't ready to go all the way and I respected it. So the pattern I'm noticing is women trying to throw a wrench into my gears with some shit that even a fucker with thick skin who doesn't give a shit about much like me will have to stop and say "damn that's fucked up."

Incase your wondering, I'm an ENTP. Total extrovert, always the life of the party, argumentative (in a funny playful way), abrasive yet charming.

What is It about me that prompts these extreme shit tests?

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Title Abused, virginal or dying - A pattern of shit tests
Author WhySoRuff
Upvotes 2
Comments 5
Date January 26, 2016 11:23 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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[–]Endorsed ContributorAFPJ 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

was told by a HB8 with a kim k body that she was a virgin

Whenever I hear / read / see this "grandma on fire inside a tornado, gotta go". Pick it up 3-5 days later

Could her ego feel the need to score points at my expense because of the way I operate?

Always, at all times, for no reason whatsoever.

When I was a 14 year old high school freshman

...Was a time so long ago that it shouldn't be included in any practical example asking for advice. (No offense)

What is It about me that prompts these extreme shit tests?

Wrong question, you're irrelevant. It's standard, run of the mill beta bait. Everyone is subjected to this.

Otherwise known as compliment / pity fishing. Hear it, empathize and purge it from your mind.

[–]WhySoRuff 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Whenever I hear / read / see this "grandma on fire inside a tornado, gotta go". Pick it up 3-5 days later

Do you just click without waiting for a response?

[–]Endorsed ContributorAFPJ 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe I'm too soft, but I don't see these as shit tests.

The first girl told you her parents abused her and that she had had a reproductive tract disease that was cured. That's not a shit test. That's a comfort test. That's a

"I'm telling you this because I feel comfortable and I want you to help me feel comfortable" or

"I'm telling you this because I am ready to take a bit of a risk with you and I want you to help me feel comfortable about taking that risk."

Same with the second one - she's telling you her dad died of Hep C and she has it too. Now you might not want to fuck a girl who has Hep C because IIRC that is an STD. But the point is she was looking for comfort.

The only point I'm making here is that not everything a girl says that isn't total deference to you or willingness to fuck you is a shit test. Girls are human too; they have feelings and emotions too; they have problems and issues too. And when they are telling you about things like past diseases or issues, more often than not it's a comfort test.

The point is to identify them correctly so you respond to them correctly.

The thing about you that prompts comfort tests like this is that the girls felt comfortable with you and were attracted to you enough to tell you. The girl with Hep C was prpbably telling you that so you could make informed consent on whether or not you wanted to fuck her. Same with the girl who was telling you about her reproductive tract issues.

[–]WhySoRuff 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bro what hot woman will tell you she can't have babies during your 1st or 2nd interaction? It's not comfort it's beta bait to soften up someone she perceives as alpha.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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